Minaa Rahmani (left), younger sister Zahra (9 years old), and younger brother (14 years old) Zain.
Minaa Rahmani
May 29, 2018
As the sixth most populated country in the world, the Islamic Republic of Pakistan is home to more than 150 million people, several regional languages including Urdu, Punjabi, Saraiki, Pashto and Sindhi with about 96 percent of the population following the religion of Islam. Even though she wasn’t born in Pakistan, junior Minaa Ragmani identifies with the Pakistani country, it’s traditions, and customs.
Relocating from Pakistan to the United States in search of better opportunities, her mother and father, Sonia and Mohammad Rahmani, decided to start their family in the Frisco area.
“My husband had been in Texas and we liked the area, we heard very good things about Frisco ISD,” Sonia said. “We wanted our children to have the best education possible, and if we had the means to do it, then why not?”
Even though Pakistan and the United States are in opposite sides of the world, they are seemingly similar when it comes to the duties of daily routines.
“The daily life is pretty much like life here, kids go to school in the morning and the adults go to work,” Sonia said. “The women there mostly start working just like here, but in some areas, women are still housewives, just as there are some here.”
However one of the main difference in lifestyle between the two countries is the dedication and prominence of the Muslim faith in Pakistan.
“We follow the religion Islam,” Sonia said. “It is a very peaceful religion over there and involves five day prayers.”
Through the sharing of the same faith throughout the nation of Pakistan, there is a sense of community and unity with one another through Islam.
“All the neighbors are friends with each other and hang out together almost every day in Pakistan,” Rahmani said. “Whether it’s going to the mosque together or meeting for dinner there’s always a reason to meet together at the end of the day.”
Warming up to the city of Frisco and finding their place in the community was made easier through the local mosques and the friends that were made there.
“Most of our close friends here we know through the mosques since we don’t have any immediate family here in this area,” Rahmani said. “We go to five different mosques, Plano, Irving, Carrollton, Frisco and Richardson and since we visit so often we end up making close friendships with people that become family.”
Although Pakistan is almost 14,000 miles away from the city of Frisco, there are a couple different places the Rahmani family visits to trace back their roots to their culture.
“There are many different restaurants in the area that we like to visit that offer Pakistani food,” Rahmani said. “But we also get most of our meat from a grocery store called Oasis, because their meats are from animals that were killed a certain, holy way.”
The sense of being accepted was transcended throughout the mosque and Islamic community, however the same could not be said for Rahmani in the school environment.
“I moved to the United States when I was in the seventh grade,” Rahmani said. “September 11 came around and that’s when people started calling me a terrorist.”
Even by taking precautions with how she would address her culture to Americans at her new school, Rahmani still felt defeated by the treatment she was receiving from her peers.
“I didn’t advertise my Muslim faith around school because my parents warned me to be careful because we didn’t know how the culture was over here,” Rahmani said. “One month into the school year I remember freaking out and crying because I didn’t know what to do, this stuff doesn’t happen in Pakistan because everyone is the same religion.”
However, living in a country where racism and attacks towards Muslims are common, Sonia and Mohammad feel safe and accepted in the DFW area.
“We don’t really have any fears, kids growing up here have an understanding of other cultures,” Mohammad said. “We have done our best to share with [our] children about our culture and also to practice what we preach, our hope for them is to continue practicing their culture and live their lives with the same values that we have lived ours.”
Teaching their children about their culture is a very important part of being Pakistani in the United States for Sonia and Mohammad.
“I think culture for us starts from home, for myself, I know that I can follow my culture in any way possible, from [wearing] a headcovering to the way to talk to parents, elders, and greeting them first,” Sonia said. “If you teach your kids all that from the very beginning, there shouldn’t be a problem with your kids not knowing their culture and they will learn to follow it and treasure it their whole life.”
