Living with social anxiety
FISD student learns to manage school with social and intellectual barriers.
For many high school students, making friends and completing school work isn’t anything out of the ordinary. But for junior Curt Crampton, these types of situations do not come as naturally. Curt was diagnosed with Aspergers and Bipolar Disorder at age three, along with social anxiety, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, and depression around the age of 12. On a daily basis, Curt struggles with social and intellectual barriers.
“It affects my everyday life within my family, friendships, and simple functions,” Curt said in a written reply. “It doesn’t just take a toll on me, but the people around me also.”
Curt used to go to school here, but now attends Centennial High School, in order for his schooling to be more accommodating to his needs
Math acts as a bump in the road for Crampton, but he is able to excel in other educational areas. For example, he scored a 99.9 percent on a higher level thinking assessment.
“My mental illnesses affect my schoolwork in many ways,” Curt said in a written reply. “For one, I am still in algebra one as a junior. The way my brain functions, math has always been difficult for me.”
Education is not the only factor affected in Crampton’s day to day life.
“I have very few friends because it’s very difficult for me to make friends,” Curt said in a written reply. “I can be very hostile and exhibit violent behaviors, but at the end of the day I am still the same loving and caring person.”
When it comes to family life, hostility is Crampton’s least prevalent character trait.
“His diagnoses have definitely brought us closer because he is willing to open up to me in ways he wouldn’t have if he didn’t have Aspergers or Bipolar Disorder,” mom Diane Crampton said.
His sister, freshman Emma Crampton, wholeheartedly agrees.
“He opens up a lot more to us, his Asperger’s makes him very smart, and he is able to show me different perspectives and insight to situations,” Emma said. “We are also able to bond over common ideals such as stress. ”
But home life is not always easily manageable and normal for the Cramptons.
“The biggest thing is we can’t do a lot of social activities with him in crowded places like restaurants and amusement parks,” Emma said. “I also can’t ask him to drive me around or hangout with my friends because a lot of activities are too over stimulating for him. We have to go out at certain times when we know the location is not too crowded.”
Curt’s initial diagnosis of Aspergers and Bipolar Disorder are what led to his social anxiety, OCD, and depression. Many people say that they have OCD when their papers are not stacked straight or their room clean, but OCD is much more.
“It may be accurate for some people, but to me it is not,” Curt said in a written reply. “OCD is a very serious disorder that severely affects my life. Just because you are organized doesn’t make you OCD.”
Although Curt has his ups and downs, he family believes he is a unique and inspiring individual.
“Generally people view those who are living with cancer or any other major health problems as courageous, but overlook mental illnesses,” Diane said. “I view Curt as one of the most courageous people I know because his diagnosis can be very debilitating and unmanageable at times, but he is just as courageous as anyone else.”
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Carol Campbell • Oct 29, 2015 at 9:50 pm
Teen age years for the most part can be a difficult time to know just where do you fit in. You are really trying to figure out
who you are. Then add a situation of mental illness or just being different then the ones who feel they are in the main
stream and then you have a combination of things. One would be bullying, isolation, depression and even loneliness.
Schools work hard with academics, sports, the arts etc. but they really need to draw attention to reaching out to be listeners
of stressed students, without judgement. The ones who feel they have it all together can be encouraged to reach out to ones
who feel isolated. A lot has to be accomplished mentally for students that struggle. We all want to be loved and welcomed
and it can be addressed at the level of learning so the students grow in their mental ability as well as academically.
Kelly Worth • Oct 27, 2015 at 1:30 pm
Good for him! It honestly feels great hearing about someone finding ways to deal with something like this. I’ve had mild social anxiety since high school and never really put effort into improving until years after when i realized on how much I’ve missed out on.